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hey this is Leo for actualised org and in this quick self-help segment we are going to talk about how to change your life all right this is a deep deep deep passion of mine that's why I found it actualized on work is to help people change their lives because that's the position that I was in really five years ago so I was really struggling and trying to figure out how do I change my life and set it up and design it in such a way that I'm always happy I'm not dealing with all this fear and anxiety all these negative emotions and then I'm out there and I'm financially secure and I have everything that I want in my life I'm just living an awesome exciting kind of life how do I get that how do I go from this mediocre life that I've got now to this supercharged life that I know I could have that I see other people having and I know I'm capable of getting into that kind of life and then the question for me was well I don't really know the techniques I don't have any friends that have done that is it even possible so that was always on my mind and now after I made this journey of studying literally over a hundred thousand dollars of personal development material and making all these radical changes in my life from starting a business becoming financially independent moving all across the country improving my dating life dramatically improving my fitness dramatically losing a lot of weight keeping it off improving my mindsets getting myself thinking more positively just like all these changes that have made it's just like it's shown to me that it's possible and that literally right now we live in an information era where there are information products that will help you change your life in any way that you want and they're not overhyped actually all these changes are real and they're actually possible the only question is are you gonna work it are you gonna work the program are you gonna go out there and take the initiative and actually decide that you want to do this are you actually gonna shell out some money to maybe buy the programs that you need the books whatever get the help that you need and actually go out there and capitalize on these opportunities and I think what's most amazing is that people don't realize that this is out there for them literally right now you can create and become whoever you want that doesn't mean you can fly to the moon but it does mean that whatever career you want to master you can do you can do that whatever kind of relationship you want you can get that whatever kind of family life you want you can get that whatever changes you want to make to your beliefs and to any past trauma that is holding you back you can make all those changes however good you want to make yourself feel proud optimistic excited you can do that however much travel you want to do you can do that however much money you want to make you can do that so all this is available to you and the tools are actually available to you but you do have to go out there and look and you have to follow certain principles to do this successfully and these are the principles of success which are also the principles of change because success in a lot of ways is how to make great changes and make sustainable changes because what happens is that most of us are not lucky enough to be born successful to be in the kind of situation that we want to be in for their whole life we usually start off kind of struggling we don't really know where we're going where we grow up in a negative environment with limiting beliefs and friends and family they're not very supportive and so what happens is that we feel stuck and we feel like there could be something better and we don't know that there are certain principles that can be followed and so changes are necessary and by this process of making changes you create this exciting life so how do you actually do this well to do this what I found I'm going to give you some just some practical ways this is a very deep topic which I'm going to cover in other videos on my site but to create change number one you got to find out what it is that you want you have to be very clear about what you want if you don't know what you want you will not get it you will you will you will weave around life like this back and forth and you're gonna be running around life like a head like a chicken with its head cut off so you got to get very clear about what it is that you want you gotta articulate it be very specific about what your goals are why do you want to create a vision for yourself once you've got that down the rest really is just a matter of time and a little bit of hard work so you have to be very clear about who you are what you want what your purpose in life is what your vision is that's understanding yourself then you want to set some goals set some bold goals for yourself because if who you want to be and who you are what your values are is not aligned with what your life is like right now then that means you need some change to get you there and to do that you need some goals so what are your goals what are specific things that you want to accomplish in the next year in the next five years in the next 10 years sit down make a list and then think about it and then visualize it and ask yourself is this really what I want or maybe I would rather prefer this or maybe that and through this process of introspection and journaling create a very nice specific list of goals that's also very important and then of course you can have to go out there take action on these goals there's no way to avoid that you can have all the mindsets and all the all the all the knowledge that you want but you have to in the end go out and do some hard work and apply some some elbow grease to the problem and actually get these things happening and that's gonna be an unavoidable and unavoidable aspect of getting any kind of change in your life but one point that I really want to stress in this whole process is that the really important part actually is the psychology it's the inner game that you have with regards to change because most people try to make change in their life but they're not able to sustain it and they fall back to to the place that they started at and the reason that happens is because they don't understand that they need to change their inner game before they really get sustainable change in the external world the inner game are your beliefs your mindsets your ways of thinking your your emotional control over yourself right your discipline level any kind of any kind of mental techniques that you do like visualizations and affirmations that's what I talked about that's what I mean when I talk about inner game so you need to have those things dialed in before you can get a change like losing a lot of weight and keeping it off or earning a million dollars and keeping a million dollars or finding a good relationship and maintaining that relationship notice that when you're asking about making a change nobody cares about making a one-time change and then popping back down the next day nobody wants to have a million dollars for a day and then lose it nobody wants to drop 50 pounds for a week and then lose it nobody wants that right you want to make a sustainable change yet very few of us think about change in a sustainable way very few of us use strategies that are sustainable this is very true with diets it's very true with pursuing money very true with relationships so what you've got to do is you've got to ultimately bite the bullet on this one and buy into the concept of self mastery the fact that your success and your ability to change comes ultimately from your mastery of your own emotions in your own psychology and that means studying what that is like that means understanding yourself on a deep level about you know what are the things that do create change what are the things that don't create change how do you self-sabotage how do you think in negative ways that that keep you from getting to the place that you want to get to how are old beliefs limiting you and holding you back how is old conditioning and training from childhood perhaps holding you back you have to fix that stuff to get sustainable changes right and you have to know some techniques to like how do you set proper goals how do you create a vision how do you create a personal mission statement what are your values these are all important to understand because if you don't understand these these are like the fundamentals of success then you're not going to be able to have success in any area of your life and when I say no success that means no real positive lasting change all right so I'm gonna wrap it there but because this is really what actualize that org is about this is the core of it first of all I'm gonna send you to check out my blueprint which is my personal development blueprint which covers 100 of the greatest personal development concepts of all time we cover all these concepts that I talked about and dozens of dozens more so these are the most important things that you need to know to be able to create change in success in your life everything from understanding how to find your life purpose identifying your values how to get all the all the inner game into place to make you extraordinarily successful we're gonna put you like in the top 1% of everybody who doesn't know this stuff most people just are not taught how this stuff works so check that out right now it's free it's found at actualizado org slash blueprint and then of course I want to hear your comments so please drop me some comments here like this share this and subscribe to my newsletter also on actualised org because there you're going to get more advice video advice articles like this that I published every week for free which will help you create the kind of change that you want your life